A Girlfriend Camp Visit to Lily Dale.
This past weekend, a group of girls and I went on our annual “girlfriend camp vacation.”
We’ve gone to various places over the past few years including a beach week at Ocean Isle and having various “camp staycations” at each other’s homes.
One of my BFF’s (who I affectionately named Bubby about 20 years ago when Hubby and I met her and her Hubby on an airplane heading to the same cruise) and I created Girlfriend Camp (or GFC as we have coined it) quite a few years ago for just the two of us to get together. We would meet up a couple times a year at one or the other’s house or at a destination in between since we live about two hours apart.
Since then, GFC has expanded to some of her friends and some of my friends at different times. We are now all friends and share a very special GFC bond!
This year, Bubby wanted to visit Lily Dale, NY as part of our vacation. I had never heard of it, but am always up for an adventure and new experiences.
And that it was!
Lily Dale is a small community located in southwestern New York. It has a population of 275, but welcomes approximately 22,000 visitors each year. The purpose of Lily Dale is to further the science, philosophy, and religion of Spiritualism.
It is a place of pilgrimage for many Spiritualists and others interested in Spiritualism, the paranormal, and New Age topics. Many medium and Spiritualist healers reside in Lily Dale.
I can’t say that I’ve been convinced to believe that Mediums can communicate with spirits (even though a Medium provided me with the name and spelling of my recently-passed brother), but what I can say is that it is a lovely and loving place.
No matter who we encountered during our visit to Lily Dale – whether they be other guests or Lily Dale residents, every person was kind and loving. There is a true sense of peace in this little place on earth.
There are small trails through the woods to walk – one of which is a “Fairy Trail…”
where lovely little fairy houses and communities are on display,
and room is made for fairies (and visitors) to dance with nature.
Gathering places have been created….
for people to gather, pray, meditate,
and possibly connect with the spirits of their loved ones.
Healing services are held, and ribbons of healing and prayer are tied on a prayer tree in chains to offer continuous remembrances for loved ones. Guests are offered the opportunity to write a prayer intention or a name on a ribbon. By the end of each summer, hundreds of ribbons are tied to the prayer tree and sing gently in the breeze. At the end of each summer, healers gather in prayer and respectfully take the ribbons from the tree. They are brought to the closing ceremony, where a final blessing is said over the ribbons for healing and for the world.
Here we are in Lily Dale. Full of love. Full of life. Feeling the peace. Open to the experience.
And the next day……. in true GFC fashion – we spent the day visiting winerys and breweries and celebrating life and freedom and peace and friendship.
Cheers to girlfriends! Cheers to friendship! Cheers to kindness! Cheers to acceptance! Cheers to open minds! Cheers to peace! Cheers to love!
And finally,
Cheers & Hugs,
Jodi
Oh, Jodi! You were in my old stomping grounds! I grew up in Chautauqua County, and, eons ago, was gently chastised for holding hands with my boyfriend at a stump meeting. (Somehow that blocked the spirit pathway…)
Another former Chautauqua Countian, Wendy Corsi Staub, has started a series of novel about Lily Dake that are light and fun to read…
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So you’ve attended inspirational stump meetings Pam?! Did you have any interesting experiences there? (besides holding hands with your BF) 🙂 ❤ I bought one of Wendy's books, but I haven't read it yet. Might be interesting now after visiting there. I can't even imagine what it would be like growing up there.
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That was probably my only interesting experience…I was always afraid to actually get a reading, but friends and family swore by the messages they got from mediums… my hubby’s brother lives in a house whose backyard adjoins Lily Dale…
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Wow – so much we have to talk about when we meet up! 🙂
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Yes, ma’am!!!!
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Friends…nothing can replace them. This looks like a really interesting place. I love the ribbons on the tree, and the sign to leave room for the fairies to dance. Thanks for sharing your adventure! (K)
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So so true! I loved the ribbon tree too. And there was something so endearing about the fairy trail 🙂
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Wow what a beautiful post, Jodi and such great pictures. So nice to have friends and go on an adventure. Great.
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Glad you had such a wonderful, fun time! You can have fun anywhere when you are with your friends! <3!
Love the little "Let the Fairies dance" sign 🙂
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That is so true! 🙂
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What a wonderful experience. Jodi, you are the most amazing person I know. Your positive attitude and ready smile make me so fortunate to call you a friend.
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What a sweet sweet thing to say, Cindy! But I’m really not amazing. LOL! 🙂
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Life is such a nicer journey with friends. 🙂
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It surely is! 🙂
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Kate and I LOVE Lillydale. Always a fun place to visit.
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Fun! What is your favorite thing about Lilydale Mark?
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Jodi, this looks like a magical girls weekend! It’s lovely to have girly time!❤
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It really was! Thanks for visiting Mary 🙂
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It looks and sounds like a wonderful place to visit! I loved the purple house! Thanks for sharing your experience with us Jodi!
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Isn’t it interesting and colorful!?! Anywhere else a purple house would look strange, but in Lilydale, houses are all the colors of the rainbow 🙂
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Oh wow, that would be fun to see! Rainbow color houses!
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What a lovely place to spend a girl’s weekend! I get together with two dear friends from high school every year and absolutely love it, but after reading this post, I’m thinking we need to expand our horizons a bit and visit more interesting places, too!
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LOL! It is fun to expand our horizons – especially while with friends, open minds, and…. wine! 🙂
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Couldn’t agree more!
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We truly had a wonderful time! Thanks girls for another wonderful trip. Looking forward to a fall weekend!
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Always so much fun when we are together! 🙂 ❤
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Cheers to your fun-filled weekend with your wonderful friends. Lily Dale looks and sounds like my kind of place. Thank you for sharing Jodi, I love seeing you smile with your friends. 🙂
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I think you would love it there Terry! I am always smiling when I am with these Chicas! LOL! Hate photos of me though – argh! But love the feeling of love!
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Cheers Ladies! Thank you for sharing such a neat experience Jodi!
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Cheers to you too Deborah! 🙂
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What a unique little town! I enjoyed seeing all your instagram pics, you girls were having too much fun at GFC!
Jenna
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It really IS quite unique. Oh we sure did have fun! LOL! Lots of laughs and hugs! (And wine) 🙂
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Lily Dale is definitely on my journey list! Your beautiful photos have enticed me to visit and soon. One can never be too old for new experiences. Girl Friend Camp is the perfect way to stay in touch, enjoy each others company and to celebrate – fantastic idea! It appears that all of you did just that. Thank-you for sharing this marvelous post!
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Hope you get to experience it some day Ellen!
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Cheers to good friends! ❤️ Looks like you had a wonderful time! 😄 I like the colors on the houses. 🎨👍
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You would love to live there with all the rainbow colored houses! 🙂
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Yes! You know me well! 😄🙃🤣
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Looks like a great time. You are a very cute group of women. N.
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LOL! You are sweet!
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Jodi, what a perfect spot for your GFC stay. I read about Lily Dale and it’s a feature in fiction books and TV series. Thanks for posting such a unique, interesting place. Happy Wednesday. 🎼 Christine
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It really is a very interesting place!
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Ooooh I love that little fairy trail! I have a few friends that would love to visit it. I’m glad you had such a good time at your GFC!!
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It was so sweeeet! 🙂
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What an interesting place to explore together, Jodi! I can tell you had so much fun and will have stories to share for a very long time. Cheers! ♡
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Thanks Dawn – we sure did!
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Glad you all had a great time. Never heard of this place but it’s not surprising it’s in upstate NY. Seems like and interesting place. Did you take any meditation classes?
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