
So it’s the Day After #GFC2014 Weekend, and I’m still feeling so thankful and so blessed! Relaxing with Marty on this Sunday evening, and a teensy glass of red wine :).
For some reason, I was reminded of one of the best (birthday) gifts I’ve ever received. And it made me realize what a great Wedding Gift this could be during wedding season, so I wanted to share.
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My BFF, Jill, gave me this gift on my birthday a year ago, which just so happens to fall on New Year’s Eve, so coincides beautifully with New Year’s resolutions and new habits to create for the new year.
You see, “best gifts ever” don’t have to be expensive or elaborate. The best gifts ever are from the heart and those that create memories for a lifetime.
My gift was a jar filled with blank colored index card sized pieces of paper. In explaining the gift, Jill encouraged me to write down blessings throughout the year and things I am thankful for. She said we could then reopen it the following year, and revel in the wonderful experiences of the past year.
I still have the jar, and I review the notes occasionally. Sometimes when I’m feeling blessed and happy, and sometimes when I need a lift.
In my happiness and afterglow of the blessings of this past weekend, I decided to revisit the jar and read some of the blessings from 2013. It doesn’t need to be New Year’s or Christmas or a Birthday or Thanksgiving to be thankful.
Let me share just a small sampling of some of the little notes I scribbled throughout the year. Some of them are BIG – like my oldest son, Jake’s wedding, my youngest son, Nick, getting a new job…. Some are very small – like planting tomatoes or a phone call from a friend. But ALL of them bring a smile to my face and heart, bring me joy, and make me realize how fortunate, thankful, and blessed I am.
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January 1, 2013: “Celebrated the first moments of 2013 with some of the people I am closest to – Marty, Jill, and Todd. This was our FIRST year when all the kids did their own thing – be we savored the moments, the friendship, the blessings, AND we texted with the kids!”
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January 7, 2013: “Received a beautiful card from Joyce and Rob thanking and celebrating our recent reunion. A reminder to consider perception becomes reality until clarified, and can result in boundless blessings.”
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May 4, 2013: “Jake ran and finished the Pittsburgh Marathon! 26.2 miles in 4 hours, 53 minutes. Such a amazing accomplishment! So proud! Jill and Todd were there with us to cheer him on!”
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May 8, 2013: “Pam called today. Had such a nice talk. Good friends are such a blessing.”
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May 13, 2013: “Nick got a new job. Starts 6/10/13. So proud and so happy for him. I know he will be a great SUCCESS!”
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May 25, 2013: Planted tomatoes. Can’t wait to watch them grow and enjoy the bounty!”
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May 28, 2013: Girl’s Day Out with Janet – manicures and pedicures and bridal shower shopping!
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June 1, 2013: Today was Colleen’s Bridal Shower! It was a great day to celebrate a very special young lady we love!”
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June 1, 2013: Jake brought flowers to the shower for Colleen, Teri, and me. So proud of him and love him dearly!”
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June 13, 2013: “Marty got a ride in the autonomous car!”
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July 12, 2013: “So thankful for best friends ever helping with Jake and Colleen’s Wedding Rehearsal Dinner – Janet, Jill, Dawn, Tracy, even Todd and ” Baby” Jake – LOVE them all!”
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July 13, 2013: “WEDDING DAY for Jake and Colleen! AMAZINGLY WONDERFUL DAY!”
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August 15, 2013: “Matt and Judy came to visit and stay for the weekend. GREAT time catching up and reminiscing. Love them!”
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September 1, 2013: “First invitation to dinner at Jake and Colleen’s. So good to be with them in their new home.”
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September 17, 2013: “Card-making class with Colleen.”
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October 12, 2013: Wonderful GFC Weekend with Pam, Jill, Janet and Joan!”
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November 16, 2013: “Marty’s 55th Birthday! Fun time with family and Hendy’s – lots of love!”
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November 22, 2013: “Jackie and Matt ENGAGED! YAY!!!”
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November 28, 2013: “WONDERFUL Thanksgiving – Johnny came to visit – SURPRISE! with Nancy – and it was GREAT to hug him! Then a lovely dinner with Dad and Carole.”
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November 29, 2013: “So Thankful for my Marty. His heart and mind are my ROCK!”
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December 22, 2013: “Christmas with the Hendy’s at Jake and Colleen’s House!”
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December 31, 2013: “My birthday lunch with my Dad.”
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You see – there are so many things to be thankful for! BIG and small!
Wouldn’t a Blessings Jar or a Thankful Jar be a great wedding or birthday gift to give a friend or loved one? Hardly any money, but it will create a lifetime of memories.
Appreciate the moments at Life in Between…
Cheers & Hugs,
Jodi
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