Upside down…
Why?…
when “outdoor pots”
are half off
in the middle of winter…
do I admire
and not buy?
Yet four months later…
I must have,
but that darn sale
is over!
Cheers & Hugs,
Jodi
Today I will choose to be kind –
most especially and intentionally to those who are not.
I will remember how precious and fragile life is –
and seek to cherish the moments.
We may not remember days or weeks or months,
but we remember moments.
And life is made up of moments –
ones that bring joy…
And others that bring grief
and sadness and loss.
I will cherish those moments too
and allow myself to feel them.
For a heart that cannot grieve or feel sadness or loss
cannot also feel the fullness of joy and love and hope.
Today, and every day, I will seek to choose to be kind,
and I will also embrace the kindness of others.
For every moment
is what makes up a life.
Cheers & Hugs,
Jodi
The Day After the Day After
I had planned on being productive
(well maybe that’s a lie)
the day after the day after Christmas,
but the cough persisted and my nose wouldn’t dry.
So after a cold, but sunny stroll with Charlie
(a long time in coming)
and a steamy, dreamy longer-than-normal shower,
I still didn’t feel very becoming.
A makeshift bowl of chicken soup I made
from leftover noodles and carrot sticks chopped,
a tall ginger ale with a straw,
then I plopped.
A few more episodes
of Gilmore Girls sounded just right
for the day after the day after…
a peaceful delight.
Cheers & Hugs,
Jodi
This weekend, I:
Now it’s Monday.
Time to Rise, Shine, and Kick Butt!
Cheers & Hugs,
Jodi
It all began with a day trip to Cleveland this past weekend…
Hubby was going to help our friends’ son and DIL (you may recall them from My First Jewish Wedding post a few months ago) with some electrical work in their new home.
I, on the other hand, was going to “play” with one of my BFs and her girls and our GFC friends.
It was a gorgeous, unseasonably sunny, not-so-frigid February day that started with lots of hugs and kisses, a new home tour, a delicious steaming breakfast casserole loaded with eggs and bacon and potatoes, fresh chewy bagels in pumpernickel and cinnamon raisin and sesame seed with generous shmears of cream cheese, and mugs of hot coffee with french vanilla cream.
After all the hugging and kissing and eating was done, the guys went to work, and the girls went to play!
We took a ride to a quaint little village called Chagrin Falls. The scenery was stunning, the shops were eclectic, and the restaurants were yummy! The streets were bustling with girlfriends and couples and families and even lots of dogs strolling the streets with their moms and dads. (Sssshhh! Don’t tell Charlie!)
After we found a parking space (that allowed for us to accumulate some steps on our Fitbits), I threw my camera in my purse, and we were off. The views were breathtaking, and we giggled and chatted and wandered while we waited for a text from the restaurant we chose (with a 45 minute wait) to let us know a table for six was ready.
After about – oh – maybe 42 seconds down the road, I noticed my cell phone was missing. A bit discombobulated, I decided I was with my friends and didn’t need it. “Let it go, Jodi,” I told myself. “I’m sure I left it in the car, and I don’t need to be attached to it while with these people I love and don’t get to see nearly enough.” So I mentioned it to the gang – ok – maybe 2 or 212 times – but “let it go.”
After a bit of strolling and photo-taking and giggling and selfie-ing and posting on Facebook, we got our text that our table was ready for lunch.
If you are ever in Chagrin Falls, Ohio, be sure to check out Flip Side! We had the sweetest waitress, the most amazing cocktails, and to-die-for burgers! My One Red Door Burger was topped with melted brie cheese, crispy shallots, and date and applewood bacon aioli (O. M. G!!!)
After we ordered our drinks, I checked my purse one more time for my phone. When I couldn’t find it, I decided it was worth a walk to the car to get it and put my mind at ease.
I looked in the car, under the seat, under the car, on top of the car, around the car.
No cell phone.
Well – maybe it is really in my purse.
So back to the restaurant I walked.
After pulling pretty much every item out of my purse, I realized I didn’t have it, and it wasn’t in the car. Still not too concerned, I asked my “Bub” to dial my number and see if we could hear it ring.
Well – much to our surprise – a deep, gentlemanly voice answered my phone!
It seems my phone was at the local police station – dropped off by a kind gentleman who found it.
Mystery solved, we toasted friendship and the fact that there truly ARE still good, good people in this world.
We enjoyed our cocktail(s) and lunch, laughing and joking with our waitress about the fact that we might be stumbling a bit intoxicated to the police station to retrieve the phone after we finished every morsel of burger, sweet potato fries, crispy onion rings, and every last drop of Hendricks gin loaded with thinly sliced cucumbers over ice. (Okay – maybe that was just for me!)
Wiggling and wobbling through the streets and practically skipping with joy in the fact that good people do still exist, we got to the local police station where we found the door locked….
While I waited, my Bubby opened the box next to the door and picked up the phone to call “inside.” The dispatcher assured us someone would be right there to let us in.
A minute or two passed while we laughed and chatted about our good fortune. Then five minutes passed. Bubby stayed by my side, while the rest of the gang gathered at the front of the building near the street. Ten minutes or so passed, and Bubby and I were beginning to wonder if the people “inside” forgot about us….
A police car pulled up and a young officer drew near the door. “YAY,” we thought, we can slip in with him to the people inside who are waiting for us.
When the young officer approached, Bubby shared with him that “we have been waiting here for a long time!” We were relieved to be let in.
“No you haven’t,” he replied.
“Oh – YES – we have,” my dear Bubby retorted in true “Bubby-style.”
“Well – I was only a few minutes away, and I came right over….” declared the officer.
Jaws dropped….
OOOOOPS!
“Sorry Officer!”
“We were waiting for someone to show up from inside!”
“We didn’t realize…..”
Backtrack. Butt-kissing. Apologies…. OOOOPS! (and this is not our first experience involving the police at a GFC activity...)
Thank goodness for the kind officer who forgave us, who laughed at with us, who gave me the name and phone number of the kind gentleman who turned in my phone so I could call and thank him (which I did!), who noticed a selfie posted on Facebook while in the possession of my cell phone and responded with a private message to my Bubby (under a code name we are still peeing our pants laughing about!), and who waved at us with a grin when we crossed paths AGAIN at the intersection leaving town that day.
If you ever doubted, there STILL ARE good good people in this world. We only need to relax, to trust, to believe, and to embrace.
I’ll never forget you Chagrin Falls….
for your kind citizens (thank you Mr. A for taking the time to pick up my phone, ask people around you, and then walk it to the police department, so it could be returned to me),
your amazing police department (we’ll not soon forget you Officer J – and we’re guessing you won’t soon forget us),
your beautiful sites (the waterfalls and walking paths and old-town feel),
your delicious burgers (thank you Flip Side for your hospitality – can you PLEASE deliver to Mars?),
your popcorn shop (which made for a fun snack on the ride home while hubby and I sang along to oldies with the radio blasting),
your jeni’s ice cream parlor (whose name we first thought was “penis”),
and your friends and friendship (to all the people and dogs we couldn’t resist stopping to chat with along the street).
Oh the laughs we had joking about Officer Naughty and Officer Nyce. That’s all I’m going to say about that….
My GFC girls will understand.
And they know how much I love them.
And isn’t that just about all that matters?
Cheers & Hugs,
Jodi
Hi Friends!
It’s your buddy Charlie checking in.
Mom needed a break, so she said I could write another post.
Lucky you guys – right?!
Let’s talk about Mornings.
I’m a Morning Dog.
It’s the greatest time of the day! Don’t you agree?
Here are the TOP 10 things I LOVE to do in the morning:
Afternoons are for napping. Right?
Because then, you can get rested up enough to start the whole “morning” routine all over again when the rest of the family arrives home at the end of the day!
How do you like to spend your mornings?
Woofs & Wags,
Charlie
Hi Friends –
We gotta talk!
Can you believe my new Mom and Dad, who I was just getting comfy with and falling in love with after three weeks together, LEFT ME HOME while THEY went on vacation last week?!
I wasn’t sure what the heck happened to them, but thankfully my new brother was here to take care of me. Problem is – he goes to work all day, and I was left home alone for 8 hours ALL BY MYSELF for the first time ever ever ever – here in Mars.
It was kinda scary, and I didn’t know what to do.
The first day I did find a cute little teensy weensy little wooden lamb, which is part of one of my Mom’s little Noah’s ark displays in the dining room, that was really tasty. You guys like lamp chops – right? It kinda tasted like that, except a little bit more splintery, so I spit most of it back out.
The second day, I was really missing my Dad, so I decided to just chew a tiny little bit on his shoe. It smelled good and made me feel better like as if I was with him.
By the end of the week, my brother must have really missed being with me as much as I did with him, because he got to work from home. YAY!
We had fun – well – I did anyway. I kept bugging him to go outside and play. The bonus of it was that he learned he could trust me outside in the yard ALL BY MYSELF while he worked. I’m a really good boy and stay in the yard. (You guys have seen those nasty red flags – right?! As long as you don’t go near them – life is grand!)
My Mom kept calling my brother to see how I was. She was worried about me, because, after all, I am her baby (HAHA Nick!). I kept trying to tell him to tell her to get home, but I just couldn’t seem to communicate it to him. I tried mostly at night…. in the middle of the night mostly…. (Isn’t that when you get the loneliest?)
Like at 1:30 am…
or 2:15 am…
or 3:45 am…
Finally, my brother would get out of bed at like maybe 5:30 am and stay up.
Those other times, he would take me out and think I had to go potty or something. I didn’t. DUH!! I just wanted to play! Heck – I slept all day… (and I did keep my Dad’s chair warm and smelling nice so it would really be perfect for him when he FINALLY got home!)
When Mom and Dad came home – after a LOOOOONG week (You guys know how long that is – right? Seven – that is S-E-V-E-N DAYS!), I thought I was seeing things! I looked at them…. I wanted to be excited, but I thought maybe I was just hallucinating – maybe delirious with grief. But… when I got a little closer and sniffed and then jumped into the air onto them, I realized it REALLY was them! They were HOME! Finally HOME!
I’m not straying too far from my Mom’s side this week. Maybe if I watch her very carefully, she will not do that again!
Thanks for listening, friends, and sorry to whine a bit, but it was a heck of a week!
I’m doing really great now (with the exception of a little accident here and there – SHEESH – I am still kind of a baby and this is still kind of new!). My Mom keeps telling me she loves me and what a good boy I am :). I know this, but it is nice to hear a couple thousand times a day – right?!
And she sings me my favorite song:
I love you –
a bushel and a peck…
A bushel and a peck and a hug around the neck.
She sings SO Beautifully! Even though my Dad says I’m the only one that thinks so.
Thanks to so many of you for asking my Mom if I can be a regular here! If you keep urging, she may let me continue! <doggy wink!>
Woofs & Hugs,
Charlie

Queen Anne’s Lace
in a vase
on the patio by the door.
Sweet memories of summers past
and a Grandma I did so adore.
She could make bouquets from weeds,
bring life to seeds,
make soup from bones,
and homemade ice cream cones.
We played Old Maid
while we drank lemonade
or sipped on root beer
or cream soda floats.
We would sing and laugh on the side porch swing
making up words to our favorite songs.
She would tell me sweet stories of her life and her past
while we dreamed of the future and who would be part of the cast.
We’d watch the morning glories close
while the moon flowers arose.
They were perfectly entwined
in an ornate grate
which bordered the slope
and the colorful splendor
of the portulaca flower bed
I will always remember.
Oh how I hope
that I can someday be
the kind of grandma
she was to me.
Cheers & Hugs,
Jodi
Do you have a favorite place or space in your home?
One of my favorite spaces in our home is the family bookshelf.
It’s kind of center stage in the great room commanding half of one wall measuring about 8 feet wide by 9 feet tall.
Hubby custom built this a few years after we built our house.
My “usual” seat on the couch directly faces this “memory box,” and sometimes I just stare at all the memories while hubby is staring at the television or the latest book he is reading in the evening.
It’s filled with so many favorite things…
There are a lot of family photos – some from a long time ago and some more recent…
Like our oldest son at 4 years old playing a toy saxophone and then a framed newspaper clipping of him playing a saxophone solo in the high school band. There’s one of him and his beautiful wife – our beloved daughter-in-law. There’s one of him and his Dad with a cake they made for a Cub Scouts competition and one in his “cap and gown” at his preschool graduation.
There are photos of our youngest son dressed in his favorite Halloween costume that he wore two years in a row when he was Peter Pan at 4 and 5 years old, in his football uniform for midget football, sticking his tongue out with his Dad and brother on a summer trip to Cedar Point Amusement Park, grinning at me at his preschool graduation, with me at a Kindergarten party where I was his homeroom mom, and with his sweet girlfriend now.
There is a photo of my hubby with his sister when they were young children… a sister and aunt who we loved dearly and lost way too early from cancer.
And there is a photo of my father-in-law taken on his last day on this earth when he was blessed with a surprise visit from a favorite niece from far away who he hadn’t seen in years. It is such a sweet memory to see him so happy just hours before he left us. We will never be able to express enough gratitude to this sweet lady for the joy she brought him that special day.
There are photos of friends and fun times, like a trip to Hawaii with our besties and holiday celebrations with all of our kids.
There are a few books, some significant, some not… There are high school yearbooks, photo memory books, bibles, favorite children’s books – like our very favorite bedtime read-aloud story book – “Bob and Jack – A Boy and his Yak.” There are baby books for each of the boys and a special memory book made by my cousin Joyce and given to me at Christmas featuring my first year blogging at LifeinBetween.me. There are books read at book club and business books and bird books and favorite fiction authors. There is a copy of the book I wrote and had bound as a gift to my Dad for our second Christmas together after reuniting. Our wedding photo albums sit on one of the shelves.
Then there are other sweet memorabilia, like our youngest son’s stuffed animal “Curious George” who he loved so dearly as a child and slept with every night.
There is the birthday bear my Dad sent me on my first birthday after we reunited after too many years apart with a sweet note saying, “Happy Birthday Jodi, My Little Girl. Love you, Dad.”
It was my 48th birthday.
And there is the little trinket box he gave me that says, “Daughter – With all the Beauty on the Earth, there is nothing more Beautiful than you.”
There’s a statue of a yellow lab that was my father-in-law’s sweet memory of his beloved “Brandy.”
There’s a cruise ship trophy our oldest son won singing Karaoke on a cruise with his now wife on a family vacation he went on with her family.
There are “Friends” blocks given to me from my BFF.
There is a photo album of our Cleveland friends wearing Pittsburgh Steelers shirts and poses too explicit to share here after they lost a family bet during a rival football playoff season.
There is a gorgeous painting from a faraway friend who suffered from a life-altering traumatic brain injury that completely changed her life and turned a corporate CEO into an artistic genius and a genuinely beautiful creative inspiration. I bought her very first piece of artwork, and I treasure it so dearly.
My heart is smiling as I type and recall these memories.
You see – a home is not brick and mortar. It is not plaster and paint.
It is the memories.
It is the family and friends and people you share it with.
My favorite little plaque hanging on another wall in our home says it all….
“The thing I love most about my home is who I share it with.”
So that is my special home “space.”
What is yours?
Cheers & Hugs,
Jodi